Rwanda Adoption News

I found myself very emotional at church this morning. I was surrounded by beautiful Rwandan children looking at me with their huge brown eyes. All I could think about was our son. I wondered if he is born yet. Who his mother is and where does she live? Have I walked by her at the market?

I think that it hit me more today than other days because it was recently announced that Rwanda is no longer accepting dossiers as of Tuesday. They have signed the Hague Agreement which long term is great news for children. It will protect them against harm and eliminate corruption from the system. The sad and upsetting news is for those families who are currently in the process of preparing their dossiers. For us, we have put things a bit on hold until we get settled in to our life here in Rwanda so it isn't as devastating to us as it is for many families. We have heard that there are about 150 dossiers waiting at the Ministry office to be processed. In my mind, having been through a Chinese adoption where there are tens of thousands of dossiers waiting to be processed, that doesn't seem like a lot. But, I can also completely understand how they feel. It doesn't matter if there are 30,000 or 3 dossiers in front of yours. You just want your child home in your arms.

So, we will just have to wait and see what happens. We have no idea how long the process of accreditation will take. We just have to trust God. Again...the biggest lesson we learned while waiting for our sweet Emma was...God's timing is Perfect timing.

Our House and Church

Several of you have been asking for more pictures of the inside of our house. I finally have things put away enough that I felt I could take a few pictures to post.

The school...more pictures to come in a few days of Matt's classroom and inside the school!

Here is the church we attend...the blue is an outdoor baptismal!

Our House

The Front Yard. It looks Much better now that Emmanuel cleaned it up. He did awesome!

Our Room. Emma loves our huge mosquito net. She is being a monkey here.

Emma's room!

Emma's pink bed and mosquito net. She loves it because she HATES bugs!

The cabinet above the sink is actually no longer there. The other day it along with the faucet came crashing down. Water was gushing out of a hole in the wall. It was a totally "I Love Lucy" moment!

Kitchen

living room

dining room

We have a guest room/office too. So if you are in the neighborhood, come on over!

Emmanuel

Probably the biggest adjustment and the thing that has put me most out of my comfort zone here has been having a worker. I am a very "do-it yourself" kind of person. It is the norm here to have workers. Most "upper class" families have inside workers who help with cooking, laundry, cleaning, etc. As well as a guard and/or outdoor worker who would be sort of like a grounds keeper there to keep the yard looking nice, etc. This is so weird to me. We decided to have someone 2 days a week to help with the yard, go the market for me and just sorta be a presence while I'm at work. He works another 4 days a week for our friends down the street. His name is Emmanuel. He is a really nice young man and super sweet with Emma. I discovered yesterday that he has a 4 year old son and a wife. He has done an amazing job cleaning up the yard. Our house hasn't been lived in for awhile so the yard needed a lot of work. Please pray that we are able to build a relationship with him and share Christ.

We have been told by many families that if I try to go to the market and buy produce I will be charged Mzungu prices. But, if we send our worker, he will be charged local prices and so we will pay much less. Yesterday, I made a list and Emmanuel road a moto to the market for me.

Here is what he got for 14,000 Rwandan Francs. That is about $24 US.

2kg of potatoes (4.4 lbs)

1 pineapple

2 bunches of bananas

1 kg of mangoes (3)

5 apples

2 green peppers

1 kg of sweet potatoes (2.2 lbs)

4 avocados

1 cabbage

2 kg of flour (4.4 lbs)

1 kg of sugar (including rocks!) (2.2 lbs)

2 cucumbers

4 cans of tomato paste

12 eggs

and round trip moto ride

Yes, this IS the biggest avocado you have ever seen! I cut into it thinking it was a mango! That is a mango above it. Unreal!

Emma's First Day of Preschool!!

Emma started preschool Wednesday. We are so excited that she loved it. We were pretty nervous that she might struggle with being away from us for 4 hours since we have only been here for 2 weeks. Starting preschool is a pretty big deal in itself let alone throwing in the fact that she just moved to a new country. She has been awesome through all of the changes. She says all the time, "I love living in Africa Mom! It's Awesome!" Wait until she actually sees a zebra or something! She'll really love it.

Her preschool is mostly Rwandan children. She does have a few other missionary kids who attend with her as well. She has her friends Tilly, Joe, and Emily all from England. We think that one other family will be sending there little girl there too. She is actually adopted from China as well so that will be extra special for Emma.

I'm so glad that she enjoys it. I will be starting work at the school on Monday!

Islands In The Stream

This afternoon I was resting on the couch while Matt worked on school things and Emma took a nap. I woke up to what sounded like a parade coming down our street. We went outside to check it out and was told by our neighbor, a lovely Rwandan woman, that it was a betrothal ceremony. Basically, the young man was coming to ask for the woman's hand in marriage. He would make a speech and then negotiate the bride price with her father. Typically, cows are given. It was such a beautiful affair. I ran down the street a snuck (as much as a white person can sneak anything in Rwanda) a few shots. The wedding photographer in me couldn't resist. I tried not to take anything too invasive. People are very sensitive about having their picture taken by strangers here so I didn't want to be rude. I could hear people saying, "mzungu" which means white person so I just grabbed a couple of shots and took off.

This was a few hours ago. I can still hear them celebrating down the street. In fact, they were just blaring, "Islands in the Stream." I just had to sing along!

"Islands in the stream that is what we are.

No one in between. How can we be wrong.

Sail away with me to another world.

And we'll rely on each other ah ah."

Shopping...Finally!

Today I was able to venture out and do some grocery shopping to stock up the cupboards. One thing that I always find interesting when visiting another country is the price difference for certain staple items.

Just a sampling for those interested:

Rice 5Kg bag-$14.50

Banana chips-.85

Vinegar-$3

Canned Peaches-$4

Soy Sauce-$3

Canned Mushrooms-$5 (if you know Emma, you know that she LOVES mushrooms. she was thrilled to see them on the shelf)

Pasta-$1.20

Ketchup-$1 (not sure why I bothered bringing ketchup p

ackets.)

Tomatoes (a bag of about a dozen roma tomatoes)-$0.68!!

Ground Hamburger is about $2/pound

Shaved Ham is about $3.50/pound

4 Garlic Cloves-$1.40

I was also able to go to a

Craft

Store...not

like Michael's...it is a store wit

h crafts already made. There were so many beautiful things. It will be a favorite stop whenever

I make it to the grocery store since it is right next door. I was looking for bread loaf pans and baking sheets at the market so when I spot stone crocks and plates I was thrilled! I bought the dishes for 3000 Rwandan Francs (about $5US) and the Crocks that I can use for bread or casseroles/lasagnas for $8.50 each! I also found

these beautiful baskets perfect for our toiletries and dvds. Emma picked out 2 little animals so that her dolls could have pets at the doll house.

Another fun find was this wall hanging. They are made from banana leafs. We have seen them at the school and I was

hoping to find one. It was only $5. I made a fun collage of family photos. And, the other day I bought this fantastic chair for Emma on the side of the road. $6!! She loves it!

Water

Over the last several years we have been involved with many clean water projects. Matt worked on wells in Malawi, we worked with our youth groups to raise money for wells, we were involved with the Rwanda Clean Water Project at Mars Hill, etc. I have seen the pictures of kids carrying large yellow containers of water from the river. Matt has walked with women in Malawi for miles to gather water in the pond and carry it miles back to their homes. You can do all those things and think, “Wow, that’s horrible.” But then you walk over to your sink and drink glass after glass of water and don’t think about it again.

We have been driving around town seeing people carrying containers of water. We are in the capitol city of Rwanda. This isn’t some little village in the middle of Africa. It really hits me when I come home and I turn on my faucet. I can turn on my faucet and there is fairly clear water that comes out. Yes, I have to boil it and then run it through a filtration system and it still tastes like you are licking a ceramic pot or a rock. But, I don’t have to walk for miles and then boil and filter my water.

The water situation is interesting. Each home has a water tank. Well at least the homes with running water. The city will fill the tank randomly so there will probably be times when we will not have water. Maybe even for a couple of days at a time. We only have hot water in the upstairs shower. None of the faucets, including the kitchen, have hot water. So, anytime I do dishes I have to boil 2 kettles of water and then add cold water from the faucet. I use some faucet water for washing dishes so that we can get our stomachs somewhat used to the water. I’m sure there will be times when we eat something that wasn’t washed properly so if we can get our stomachs used to it we might not get so sick. We only plug in the water heater or the water pump right before we take showers or baths to save electricity.

Enjoy a yummy glass of water from your tap...even those of you in So. Cal...and be grateful!

Water tank the back yard.

Water filter in the kitchen